Monday, October 27, 2014

How To MASTER Online Dating to Find A SPOUSE

Picky is good if you know what you want. Even if you are not up to it - viz. data mining and extrapolation - you will glean some great cues from Amy's 'Research' into Online Dating that will help you to get closer to finding 'THE ONE', that is for those of you who are looking for marriage and not just short-term flings. Watch this great video! (The general principles can also be applied by men looking for a wife).

Using algorithms actually make sense for online dating sites when you come to think of it. Because most dating sites have many members, you need to have some tool / systematic criteria to narrow down your choices - quickly - especially if you live in a populous city with many eligible singles. For women whose biological clock is ticking past child-bearing years, the race is on to find suitable, spousal material fast.

If you can find or create an automated system or app for this, it will save you alot of time and frustration. APPS and similar algorithms are in fact, the ideal way to narrow down your field to a manageable short list because of their speed and grunt for this kind of work.

More importantly this list would have filtered out all but the most suitable candidates, leaving you with the creme-de-la-creme of dating possibilities to check out, date and...even marry (if they scored 1050! :)

These days more and more singles are increasingly using online dating sites to find dates because they are busier than ever at work compared to their counterparts of a decade ago and therefore have less personal time for dating.

Also the rise and rise of mobile devices and social media and the increasing addiction to them, have contributed to the problem as these encroach into personal and work time and leave many of us more time-impoverished than ever. (Look to the right and left of you everytime you are in a public place and you will find people totally engrossed with their phones).  This is especially worse for those who are less self-disciplined or organised to begin with. And for those who are single parents.

Which leads us to the conclusion that online dating sites is the way to go for busy people provided you use their algorithms with caution. Stack the odds further by:
  • setting up a very accurate profile (be very honest, avoid vagueness)
  • of 97 words in length (more might suggest you're smart but to get dates..)
  • using non-specific descriptions & references (leave room for imagination)
  • being less intimidating (use {friendlier} words like fun, girl, funny. etc.)
  • realising that most people's profiles don't match up to the reality
  • using your own algorithms / apps as well - to whittle down the list faster
  • sticking to your rules eg. dating threshold of 650 pts? Set your criteria.
  • last but not least, it's ok to show some skin (for women) but not too much.

In other words, even if you cannot extrapolate like Amy you still stand to gain from her insights by applying the tips she has already mentioned in the video above. Like her you can still have fun even if you are deadly serious about your mission to find the most suitable partner in your entire city! Like her being picky, analytical and thorough without compromising your standards can get you your - Perfect Match!  

Therefore it appears that thoroughly planning your tactical manoeuvres for Online Dating Mastery, like the way an Air Marshal plans for Air Supremacy in a War Room can actually pay huge, marital dividends and could be the way to go for Singles who are up to this no-mean Challenge!
 Is this your dating problem? Lucky you if you're the "chasee"!

Or is your dating experience more like this?
 When it could be like this? (Source)

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Men’s Secret Erogenous Zone

Men’s Secret Erogenous Zone? (& How to Make a Man Obsessed With You)
If I asked you to guess what his “secret” erogenous zone is, I bet you’d say his eyes. Or maybe his skin. Or maybe it’s the little area down near the family jewels called the perineum that you may have heard about.

Those are great guesses. However the most secret erogenous zone on a man is his MIND. Yes. And I do mean the one in his skull…not the little one in his pants!

Does that surprise you a little? It surprised me when I first figured this out!

It’s a widely-held belief that it’s women who get seduced by tapping into her imagination and emotions. And many people assume that men are built to just want sex at any time 24/7, there isn’t a need to get “in the mood”. So it comes as a surprise to many that men’s minds are highly erogenous. Certainly men’s sex drives and triggers are generally different than women’s, but you can provide him a heightened sensual and pleasurable experience by focusing some attention on his brain.

So, how do you do that exactly? Here are three easy ways:

1. Talk Dirty to Him

Dirty talk is one very effective way to arouse his mind. This can be a simple phrase like “I want you so badly right now” or something more explicit like describing what you want to do to him in detail. (FYI – in the program Language of Desire, I give you over 200+ dirty talk ideas). Whether you send this via text or whisper it in his ear, hearing you express your desire for him activates his brain into a heightened state of arousal.

2. Appreciate Him

Focus on the things you appreciate about him and tell him. Let him know how much you value that he makes you feel safe. Or how hard he works to support your family. Or how you love that he can make you laugh. It’s easy to forget to compliment our partner. When you give your man genuine appreciation, you feed his ego and self-esteem. And it increases the emotional connection he feels to you. Sure, this happens outside of the bedroom but you will see a direct result from it between the sheets. Because a man who feels appreciated also feels sexy.

3. Validate His Sexual Prowess

In a similar way, telling him how sexy you find him and how much he pleases you when it comes to sex activates one of the biggest triggers to his whole sex drive. Men are hard-wired to want to please a woman sexually. Validating his ability to make you feel good satisfies him probably more than you might recognize. Give him encouragement by expressing your bliss during the act and definitely follow-up with a “this is what I loved best” highlight after. Just like you’d thank someone for treating you to a nice dinner, thank him for treating you to an amazing orgasm.

This is just a small example of the kind of information I share in my program Language of Desire (watch video). There are over 20 lessons chock-full of insights on his sex drive, how to trigger potent neurochemicals, and step-by-step instructions on having him feel like he’s won the sexual lottery with you...

Master this and he will obsess over you - he will never cast a glance at another woman again! For more information > GO Here Now!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Why Men Love Dirty Talk

Why Men Love Dirty Talk (& How to Make Him Obssessed With You!) TELEP V1
It should come as no surprise that guys dig dirty talk. But have you ever considered the reasons why this form of sexual play is just so dang arousing to him? Let’s take a dive into why dirty talk drives him wild.

1. It’s An Arousing Surprise

If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement. And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.

2. He Feels Like A Sex-God

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you F#$*king love what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled enthusiasm tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

3. Your Confidence Attracts Him

A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. And generally, your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. It Shows You Are Totally In The Moment

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it shows him that you are. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone.

But don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life. In the program Language of Desire discover my ways to get over any shyness you may feel and give you over 200 dirty phrases that you can fine-tune to suit your taste level > For MORE...Go Here!