Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Why Women Leave Men

Do You Wonder Why Women Leave Men? you are worrying about your relationship and have concerns that your girlfriend or wife is going to leave you then you may be deeply wondering what these reasons could be.  There are a few reasons why women leave men.

In a relationship there can sometimes be little things that one person might not like but has tolerated for some time.  But after a while that little thing can become really annoying and they don't want to tolerate it anymore.  Then every time this thing happens they can get angry and that little thing can seem like one big annoying thing.

Then there are other little frustrations and hurts that can occur and even though they may be small little incidents, they can all add up over time.  When little frustrations build up over time they can end up being one big frustration and at some point the woman will have had enough and will just leave.  It is important to know the warning signs of trouble in a relationship so that your relationship doesn't reach that breaking point.

If you think you know what women want you may need to think again.  Many men have the wrong idea of what women want, they think they are needy and high maintenance and this is usually completely wrong.  You should stop thinking of your wife or girlfriend as "just a woman" but instead think of her as a person.  Treat her the same way that you like to be treated, the same way that all people like to be treated, like your mates or your adult sons, or other male relatives or peers.

Some men will put their woman on a pedestal and treat her like a porcelain doll and worship her.  Some men will treat their woman like a tart or even like a surrogate mother.  Neither of these approaches is good for a relationship, you should treat a woman like a human being, like an equal, like an individual who wants to be and deserves to be treated with respect. 

You also need to understand that all women are different so don't expect your wife or girlfriend to act a certain way or like certain things just because your last girlfriend did or because your mother does.  You need to treat the woman as an individual because that's exactly what she is, she will have her own likes and dislikes and will act the way she acts.

When a woman leaves a man it is often because she is unsatisfied in some major way.  She may not be getting her needs met, she may not be treated with respect; she may want more from the relationship ie. she is sick of settling for less, and of the crumbs that you may consciously or unconsciously be dishing out - it could be the crumbs of your time, your affection, your attention, your praise, your support, your approval, etc.

Think about it, when was the last time you said a good word about her appearance? her cooking? her efforts to please you? her care, understanding and support, her housekeeping, anything at all that she does for you and the family?

Have you been stingy with your compliments, lazy with dishing out feel-good vibes? What else have you been doing/saying or not doing that you could have done better, that you know she would have appreciated?

Or did you take her for granted? (Love breeds love, if you want more love then you must start with yourself - dish out more love and you will see the flow-on effects of your own effort.)

Your partner should be your best friend.  You should talk to her like you would talk to your best friend, treat her like she's important and treat her with respect.  Show her affection and know that you are still attracted to her even after all this time.

Perhaps you are aware of this and maybe even have the intention to do better by her but just didn't know how to go about it or 'didn't have the time',  Whatever your excuse start now because if you truly desire NOT to break up, you will do whatever it takes to hold onto your Woman, to keep her Love before she drifts away and into Someone else's Life.

You still a chance to reignite love, and rekindle that romantic spark again ... if she is still with you but don't wait till it's too late.  If she is feeling unhappy about you now, you can be sure that it has probably taken a long time to get to this stage and she has already tolerated a great deal of pain from you and is just 'one last straw' away from leaving you (if not already.)

Find out how to avert the 'final straw' and save or salvage your relationship before it's too late.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

How To Seduce A Man - Seduction Genie

Seduction Genie - Dating Guide Review is one of the most exciting, fun, how-to-attract-men books on the Internet! Seduction Genie is lavishly illustrated and packed with literally hundreds of completely practical, step-by-step tips. 

If you get bored with most e-books, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by how enjoyable and fun-to-read Seduction Genie can be. Plus, you will start immediately transforming your appearance, attitude, and actions to become that tantalizing seductress that all men desire.

Why This Book "Seduction Genie"?

If you're anything like me, you're a busy woman who wants more love in her life but doesn't have time to figure out the best way to meet and attract the right man.

The average person doesn't have time to research and identify all the things that work in their quest to meet that one wonderful guy. They want advice that is going to be easy to understand, easy to follow, and most important of all, ACTUALLY WORKS!

There Are 2 Things that Women Need to Succeed in Love:

1. You want to have some idea of the kind of guy who is right for you - and the kind of guy you need to avoid. This is harder than it sounds. Most people who have had a string of bad relationships never actually get round to assessing what qualities they are really looking for in a man, and as a result their dating success is somewhat haphazard. What you need is a good plan for identifying the right man for you.

2. Then you want to know what you need to do to attract this man and keep his attention. You need to develop techniques and tips to build your confidence in yourself as well as dealing with first date issues and jitters, flirting techniques that are classy, not brassy, and tips on how to really seduce your man and develop the type of relationship that is both fulfilling and passionate.

Both of which are perfectly reasonable requests!

But getting the answers can be such a challenge!  Which is why ...

Seduction Genie was created, to address the needs of a busy, single woman.

Check it out and test drive it here - it's the best way to find out for yourself.

Monday, August 15, 2011

How To Overcome Myths About Men you ever found yourself making the same mistakes repeatedly simply because you didn’t know any better at the time?

We’re all human – from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.

These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Still Single? How To Get the Love You Want

Why Are You Still A Single Woman?

You're tired of being alone. You want to meet someone. But you just can't be bothered with the effort it takes. Why give up your comfy evenings at home for a cold bar and nervous conversation? Besides, your life is just fine as it is. You don't "need" a man to be happy.  (Be honest with yourself, now isn't this true?)

Well Hello! My name is Amy Waterman. And I've got good news for you. I have just released a new book that you just might be interested in.

 Dating for REAL Women

Friday, May 6, 2011

Get Back With Ex: I Want Him To Love Me Again

Do You Want Him To Love You Again?
If you're trying to win back your guy's love, one thing you need to understand is what men look for in a relationship and whether or not this was missing in yours.

So, what are the things that men need?

Above all, men crave admiration.  So you need to let him know that he's wanted and admired. While it may be obvious for you, it may not be the case for him. If you are in doubt as to whether he knows he is admired, go overboard and shower him with more overt flirtations and expressions of affection.  

  • Did you get too comfortable in the relationship and neglected your grooming at the expense of your looks? Did you dress up for work but stay in frumpy sweats and tennis shoes when you're at home?  Remember that the women he hangs out with probably dress well and/or look attractive, whether it's at the office, sales meetings or tennis clubs. So don't neglect yourself.

  • Did your boyfriend or husband leave you for another woman? Most women mistakenly think their man has found a better-looking women. That's not usually the case. In fact, when and if you end up meeting the "other" women who happens to be pretty normal looking, the typical reaction is to think. . ."what does he see in her"?  It's most likely not just what he sees in her but what he feels when he's with her. She makes him feel respected, admired, loved and wanted again.

  • Were you constantly accused of being a nag by your partner? This isn't anything new, right? You’ll often hear men complain about being “nagged to death.”  What the man is really saying is that he wants his wife or girlfriend to be satisfied with who he is and what good qualities he has to offer.  Realize that the nagging isn't the real problem – it’s the fact that you are conveying that you're unsatisfied with who he is and what he has to offer. That's what really gets to a man and drives him out of a relationship.

Don't take this to mean that you have to be lovey-dovey all the time and can never express your true feelings, anger or sadness. But when you are proud of your man, make sure he knows it!

Don't just show the negative feelings when they occur and take his love and admiration for granted!

Remember to appreciate him and what he does for you and the family always, and you will keep the fire of his love alive. Don't leave it too late to get your Ex back.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

How To Stay Safe On Your First Date

Staying Safe on Your First Date you're a woman it's vital to know how to keep yourself safe on your first date. While in most cases the other party is trustworthy it is not safe to assume that EVERYONE you meet is going to be just that. 

We are sure you are only too aware of cases where a dating encounter that originated from the Internet has gone awry but here are some reminders nevertheless. It's vital to keep safe and confident if you're going to succeed in your search for your Man.

 Main Dating Safety Tips For Women To Observe:

  • Do NOT agree to meet him in lonely places especially at night or in the dark.
  • Take a friend with you if you're not sure about your date; pick someone strong and reliable who will protect you should you become incapacitated either from rape-drug or alcohol, not someone who will abandon you to the wolves because she is more intent upon looking after herself only.
  • Do not let your date buy you drinks if you cannot keep your glass in your view at all times (date rapes from date drugs are on the rise).
  • Do not get drunk on your dates or you will not be able to defend yourself if the need arises
  • Do not take lifts in the cars of people you hardly know from your local online dating sites
  • Keep a mobile phone with you at all times and make sure it is fully charged and topped up with enough credit to make several calls if you have to.  You never know when this could save your life.
  • Inform your family and friends beforehand about your movements in case things go wrong for you on your dates.
  • If your gut feelings tell you that something isn't right, pay attention and don't ignore your instincts. Your womanly intuition is picking up subtle cues that your conscious mind has ignored or missed, maybe because you wanted so much to believe that he could be the 'Man of your Dreams' - especially if he has made a great, prior impression on you and you have been waiting for eternity to meet Prince Charming!

There are many more tips but these are the most important ones. Feel free to submit via comments below if you have found yourself in a compromising situation on your first date and how you extricated yourself from it. Thanks.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Fireworks With Females! Dating Guide For Men

Fireworks With Females - A Dating Guide For Men

Have you ever wanted to convey what a great guy you are to the women of your choice... but never known where to start? Perhaps you've got her initial attention, but the more you talk and try, you feel her attraction slipping away?  

Slade Shaw teaches you how to effortlessly attract not just any woman, but one that will stick around in a relationship in this 215+ page ebook, bursting with pages of tips, techniques, and potent advice that's going to enable you to gain access to the truly elite women and create dynamic attraction that you have previously only dreamed of. 

Discover the two-part process to establishing winning beliefs, the essentials of lifestyle design, how to be compelling and start a conversation with women, what women really want in a man, how to make your relationship last, and much more in this life-changing course.

Why This Book 'Fireworks With Females' (FWF)?

Let me start by telling you that the title of the course is a little deceptive. "Fireworks With Females" is about much more than just creating fireworks. In fact, it guides you through the initial attraction process, developing positive and empowering mindsets, and enables you to maintain attraction to women past the initial approach, the first night, and into a relationship.

I get a lot of feedback from guys that want more than a one-night stand. In fact, most guys that write to me want a dynamic attraction to women that will result in a lasting relationship.

The thing is though, it's not that easy. Most courses tell you how to use a pickup line, how to portray authoritative body language, but very few point out how this translates to a lasting and meaningful relationship. In fact, many courses make the assumption that once you are over the initial approach, you have what you need.

That's Where "Fireworks With Females" is Different

It offers readers empowering mindsets to firstly challenge beliefs, establish positive mindsets, and apply them to attracting women. But unlike other courses, "Fireworks With Females" gives you more knowledge about taking your skills to the next level, guides you through communicating with women, and shows you how to understand females and make a relationship last.

Fireworks with Females - How to Attract Women Dating GuideIt's like having your own personal dating success coach right there beside you as you navigate your way to dating success!

The other thing I really like about this course is the engaging approach the authors take with the reader. They avoid the belittling phrases and terms that insult the intelligence of many guys, and instead find subtle ways to challenge the mindsets and attitudes that may have contributed to their lack of success. Instead of assuming that the guy has no idea, they seek to build on the skills he already has, rather than spoon-feeding him stuff he already knows.

I like to think of it as the thinking man's guide to dating, and one that embraces some powerful mindsets on the path to prosperity. Perhaps that's what sets it apart from other courses. In order to get the attention of elite women, its necessary to rethink your entire strategy and attitude, rather than focusing on one area only.

The other thing that struck me is the completeness of this course. At over 200 pages it's not a light read, but then this is a thorough course.  I also really liked the 'actionable attraction challenges' which help cement the concepts and be applied to your real life dating situation.

It's an impressive dating resource.  In addition to the course, the bonus interviews and ebooks were well presented, topical, and further enhanced what is already a very comprehensive course.

If you are serious about taking your dating and attraction success to the next level, Slade Shaw's "Fireworks With Females" is an absolute must-have companion to help guide you on the journey and maximize your chances of attraction and relationship success.

But don't just take my word for it, check it out for yourself here.

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Love And Relationship Success

Advice For Successful Love and Enduring Relationships

For most people, it's pretty easy to find love.  The challenge often seems to be to be able to make it last.  Keeping your love for each other strong is not impossible.  You just have to understand why it falls apart and make sure you, and your partner, avoid those traps.  That's where love relationship advice comes in handy.

With the advent of online dating sites there are more ways than ever to meet 'the one'.  It's a much better method than cruising the bar scene looking for someone special.  For most couples the first few months is pretty easy.  You are falling in love and you think the other person is perfect.  You can see no wrong in them or what they do.  And maybe there isn't anything wrong with the way they, or you, act in the early stages of a relationship.

So Why do Relationships Falter Later On Down the Track?

They say that familiarity breeds contempt and if that's true it would go a long way to explaining why the longer a relationship goes on the more it tends to break down.

Here is a list of some of the things you, and your partner, need to be on the lookout for in your relationship.  These are common traps that many couples fall into without realizing it.  If you know what to watch out for and can avoid these mistakes you will have a much better chance of keeping your relationship strong and healthy for a long time:

1. Unrealistic expectations.  As I said above we think our new love can do no wrong.  As our relationship slowly changes from falling in love to being in love and all the day to day stresses and mundane tasks we must face, it's easy to lose some of that early 'glow'.  This can be a pivotal time in many relationships, sometimes the couple will think that they just don't love each other anymore and break up.

In reality, in any long term relationship, you will spend a much longer time in this 'normal' mode than you will in the early 'glow' mode.  It's important to recognize that this is all a normal progression in an adult relationship.

2. Inability to effectively communicate.  Men and women express themselves differently...that's just the way it is.  The good news is that you can learn to communicate with your partner effectively, if you're willing to take some time to learn how. The whole 'it's a guy thing' or 'it's a girl thing' is only true to a point, and is largely just a cop out.  In reality any mature, intelligent adult should be able to learn how to talk to their partner, and even more importantly, listen to their partner.  The real question is do you care enough about your partner and the relationship to take the time?

3.  Don't confuse sex with love.  This may sound obvious but men and women tend to look at sex in different ways.  Women, for example, tend to look at sex as a way to connect with someone they love on a deeper physical level.  Yes, it's pleasurable, but the pleasure isn't just physical it's emotional as well.

Men tend to look at sex as definition of who they are as a man.  For them too, it's pleasurable but it's also a way to prove their desirability and masculinity.  Sometimes when a relationship gets to the 'comfortable' stage this difference in views about sex can create problems.  If one partner doesn't seem sexually interested in the other partner it can create severe stress on the relationship.

If your relationship gets to this point, it might help if you and your partner can remember that sex is only one small component of every thing your relationship is made up of.  While for many couples, having an active sex life is an important part of the relationship, it's important to understand that as you age and your relationship grows, it probably won't be  quite as important as it once was. That doesn't mean your partner doesn't love you or find you attractive, it's just a fairly common way for long term relationships to go.

I hope this love relationship advice will help you hold on to the love you've found.  Being able to make a deep, long lasting, connection with another person really is one of life's blessings.  Make your connection last by learning how to avoid the pitfalls of some relationships.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

First Date Mistakes That Men Make

Common First Date Mistakes That Men Make
First date mistakes that occur most frequently are in the communication process - not communicating your meeting schedules properly, not being clear or being vague about what your expectations are (eg. are you looking for just a fling or are you looking for a soul mate?), your relationship status (eg. if you are seeking an affair and am already in a relationship, then this should be clearly stated in your online dating profile and/ or explained when you both make contact if this is not clearly expressed in your written profile).

Some profiles are so sparse in information about themselves or the person they seek or so vague or has a large amount of irrelevant content that it can be totally misleading and lead to different expectations and assumptions which can lead to disappointment on first dates.

First Date Mistakes Men Make Which Put Women Off:

  • Getting all physical on a first date - some hand-holding may be friendly enough but overly-friendly hugs, or making overtures for deep embraces and even kisses (apart from the cheek) does seem threatening to many women. Most women would expect you to give them all the time they need to get to know you and vice versa, that is, if you're genuinely interested in them rather than what's in their pants!
  • If you are only looking for sexual or casual encounters then you should make it very clear in your online dating profile so you don't offend your dates or get disappointed yourself.
  • Not communicating sufficiently regarding meeting for your dates  - a woman in 4-inch high-heels dressed for a 5-star restaurant will not appreciate your idea of a romantic, sunset dinner if it involves a 5-mile trek across muddy paddocks to get to your favourite picnic-haunt for roast-beef sandwiches (even if it's washed down with red wine) and a view of the setting sun. 
  •  Not telling her or being too vague or inaccurate about what you will be wearing and what you look like (even if you have sent her dozens of photos) so she doesn't embarrass herself by mistaking you for someone else (especially if you look years OLDER than your photos). 
  •  Not taking your mobile phones with you or not exchanging cell-phone numbers so you can locate each other if you are 'lost' in a crowded place. 
  • Not getting spruced up even though she says she is 'rolling down to meet you in her gardening clothes' (she does not wish you to know that she made alot of effort to groom herself up for your first date because she did not wish to come across as being too eager!) and you took her literally! (yup, we know, reading between the lines is way too difficult for a man ... sometimes). By sprucing up we do mean shave, brush your teeth, use deodorant and after-shave as well as don clean clothes! 
  • Not focussing solely on her but having the 'roving eye' syndrome where you are easily distracted by every skirt that walks past. This is disrespectful and rude and will not go down well as she will assume (logically) that you are a player and easily excitable/ distractable, with no self-control.
  • Expecting her to pay or go Dutch - if it's not clear on your profile or when you first contact each other then do be a gentleman and pay for her coffee unless she insists on paying for it herself. It is abit mean and stingy to expect the woman to pay especially if you were the one to make the first move.  And women especially more mature women do like men with old-world charms like gallantry and chivalry.  
  • Being gallant and possessing genuine courtesy doesn't hurt your reputation, on the contrary it will reflect well on you should your first-date progress amicably and you decide to pursue this further.
  • In fact whether or not you get subsequent dates with a particular person will depend on how well you present yourself (in the broadest sense of the word) at your FIRST encounter or date. First impressions do matter - alot!