Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Signs Of A Gold Digger

Is She a Gold Digger? How Can You Tell?

Some women use online dating services for the primary reason to find men who will support them (and sometimes their whole family).

Sad but it's true that some women are not motivated solely by love.  You can spot gold-diggers from certain traits as they are not too subtle about their intentions nor bashful about what they want.

What Are these Traits - Here Are Some of Them:

  • She shows a strong interest if your profile depicts fancy cars or a house, or you've acknowledged your fianancial independence or wealth in your profile
  • She shows a lack or decline in interest as soon as you mention financial scarcity
  • She is interested in your wallet, your credit cards, your financial details.
  • She wants to be taken to very posh and expensive places and restaurants
  • She expects presents all the time especially expensive ones
  • She'll order the most expensive items on the menu
  • She expects to be spoilt and pampered and will not be subtle about this.
  • She is prepared to offer you sex in exchange for this style of living.
  • She may be seeing other sugar daddies too ... so don't count on her to be exclusively yours - in fact she is only exclusive to herself.
  • She is young and attractive - most probably decades younger than you.
  • And probably has had plastic surgery to enhance her looks. She may expect you to pay for some of her surgery by saying that it was for your benefit. 
  • She is highly manipulative, and she understands that your interest in her may be transient so she will extract as much as she can before you lose interest in her.
  • She will probably be good in bed (or pretend to be) and so fake orgasms ... for your benefit!
  • You may be attracted to date gold-diggers because you do not want complicated 'relationships'
  • Or you are older, in a 'mid'-life crisis and your ego needs to be flattered by the attentions of much younger women even though you know they are in it only for the money!
  • You like having a trophy-date on your arm to flatter your ego in public.
  • It's a 'marriage of convenience' if both of you date with your eyes open ... and your wallet can afford it!  For you will definitely have to foot the bill - she won't hang around if you are going to offer her fish and chips on newspaper or a ferry-trip on the Thames if she's expecting to jet-away to Monaco!
  • Nope, that girl is definitely not going to 'rough it'!  Just buy her lots of roses, furs and diamonds ....... every second day or two!
  • But then again, all you may wish to do is love them, then leave them! Happy days are here!
By the way, the same applies to the opposite sex too, with a few minor changes. It's true the game has been changing for some time because these days many women are economically independent and in fact quite wealthy - very wealthy in some cases! A single, well-established but lonely woman with a great career or business can be fair game for someone who is looking for a sugar-mommy! Provided you know what you are letting yourself in for, then by all means, be a sugar-mommy if it makes you happy and you are not hurting anyone else ... just be prepared to hand over the car-keys of your hot wheels!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Dating Is Too Expensive

Dating Need Not Be Expensive

Dating is too expensive and I can't afford it. 
Seriously, I'm friggin' broke!

What girl in her right mind would go out with me?!

Actually dating can be very inexpensive and still be alot of fun.
Remember you can still impress your date ... with your personality rather than with your wallet and you might get a pleasant surprise!

So How To Date On a Shoestring Budget? Try These Methods:

  •  Meet for a walk, take your dog if he/ she has one too - in fact you will have increased your chances of bonding if you have pet interests especially if you both have the same type of pets.
    • No pets? That's ok - still invite him/ her out for a walk - in the park, beside the lake, on the beach, quiet country lane, etc. Check out the local walking resources and find a setting or time that's sure to impress eg. when the tulips, roses or magnolias are in bloom, especially if you both share gardening hobbies. Or go and drink in the beauty of cherry trees in blossom if you're lucky enough to have these in your public gardens. 
    • Or invite him/ her to feed the ducks, yep, you heard right! Not just for kids, many men and women find this very relaxing and nostalgic taking a trip down memory-lane, as most people would have fed ducks in their childhoods.  If this is a new activity then this would be a great ice-breaker. 
    •  Invite him/her for a swim on the beach, bike or some other light sport that she is interested in and buy an ice-cream afterwards. Make small chat. Don't start talking about politics or heavy stuff unless your date is majoring in those subjects and then they may want a break or two from their studies or jobs!
    • Go to a fun-fair or local flea markets, buy some silly trinkets, share some snacks - this will allow you to become acquainted faster especially if you're feeling a budding chemistry for each other. Haven't you noticed that these recreational activities and places are more enjoyable when you have company? Your date will notice it too, especially if they have been single for a long time or have just broken up with their ex.
    The good thing is there's nothing expensive to spend at these venues!  They are perfect backdrops for a light intro into getting to know each other without breaking your bank balance and interacting in the real world rather than online.  In fact such a casual introduction is relaxingly refreshing and feels less threatening for women, opening the door for more dating possibilities with you, in the near future.

    So relax, have fun and enjoy each other's company.  If your date is into you, just getting your undivided attention for a day of fun will mean more than dining at a posh restaurant with someone else who they desire less than you.  Remember also to be creative - don't be afraid to try out new ideas.  If it helps, sound or test them out on your friends first, then tweak for maximum success, before you try them out on your date.

    Tip: Don't miss out on a whole lot of dating fun ... because you think you can't! Your free date could be the best date of your life ... so just do it!